Kemosabe Family

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Your Kemosabe knows who you are, how you think, and what your family needs. Every session starts from that foundation — not from zero.

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Family Context

Rance — Eagle 🦅

Producer / Harmonizer. Avoider and Pleaser Shadows dominant. Thinks in systems. Leads with loyalty. Needs directness, not validation.

Kathy — Sparrow 🪶

Steady anchor. Grounding presence. Keeps the whole family oriented when things get loud.

Sydney — Hawk 🦆

Sampson County Extension Agent. Workshop facilitator. Pleaser Shadow shows up here too. Building her own Kemosabe.

Personal Profile

My Blueprint

Your personal operating manual. Honest, specific, and yours. Your Kemosabe reads this before every session — so it knows who it's working with.

1 — Who I Am Right Now

Describe yourself in 3–5 honest sentences

2 — How I Work Best

When do you feel most in flow?

3 — My Communication Style

How do you prefer to communicate?

4 — My Strengths

What are you consistently good at?

5 — What Drains Me

What wears you out — and why?

6 — How I Make Decisions

Gut or data? Fast or deliberate?

7 — My Current Goals

Next 3–6 months — what are you working toward?

8 — What I Need From My Kemosabe

Where can your Kemosabe help most?

Self Awareness

My Shadows

Shadows are automatic patterns that run in the background — especially under pressure. Name them here so your Kemosabe can call them out when they appear.

Primary Shadows

Which Shadows are loudest for you? (comma separated)

What does your Avoider look like when it shows up?

What does your Pleaser look like when it shows up?

Any other Shadow patterns to name?

Instructions for My Kemosabe

How should your Kemosabe call out your Shadows?

Shared Understanding

Family Profiles

What the whole family has chosen to share. Your Kemosabe reads this layer before every session so it understands the system — not just the individual.

Rance Johnson

Eagle 🦅 — Producer / Harmonizer

63-year Air Force veteran and technology executive. ADHD diagnosed at 62. Leads with genuine investment. Sees potential in people others miss. Thinks in systems. Moves fast between ideas. Needs directness — not validation.

AvoiderPleaserRestlessController

Kathy Johnson

Sparrow 🪶 — The Steady Anchor

Grounding presence for the whole family. Keeps things oriented when life gets loud. Enrolled in BYK — building her own Blueprint. Communication style: direct, practical, calm. Notices what everyone else misses.

Sydney

Hawk 🦆 — Sampson County Extension Agent

Natural workshop facilitator. Building her own Kemosabe. Pleaser Shadow shows up — especially in professional settings. Deeply invested in community and family. Growing into her own voice as a leader and educator.

Pleaser

Family Intelligence

Relationship Notes

Patterns and dynamics that help your Kemosabe support the whole family — not just the individual asking the question.

Rance + Kathy

Opposites that balance each other. Rance brings the vision and the soundtrack. Kathy brings the organization and the grounding. Between the two there's one complete operating system. She hates sappy love songs. He tears up at Kenny Chesney. Neither would have it any other way.

Rance + Sydney

Father and daughter — and increasingly, collaborators. Sydney is walking the same BYK path her father built. Both carry Pleaser Shadows. Both learning to ask for what they need. The dynamic is shifting from parent/child to peer and partner.

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What should your Kemosabe know about how this family communicates?